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About the Book

It’s time for a rethink. For those of us seeking to live a life that is pleasing to God, it’s tempting to get caught up in the specifics of how to vote, which church to attend, how to do Communion. And while none of these concerns are unimportant, they’re not nearly as important as the greatest command we have ever been given: Love God and love one another. That’s likeability. Likeability isn’t easy, but in The Likeable Christian Justin Lathrop discusses ways to glorify God in our everyday lives by living more like Christ, actually doing what He did, and loving people the way He loved them. When we live like that, we can be free, because the rest is up to Him.

“If you ask me, there doesn’t need to be a tension between living a life of conviction and being gracious and loving.”

JUSTIN LATHROP

With over a dozen years in local church ministry, Justin Lathrop has spent the last several years starting businesses and ministries that partner with pastors and churches to advance God’s kingdom. He is the founder of Helpstaff.me (now Vanderbloemen Search Group), Oaks School of Leadership, and YoungPastors.com, and is intensely involved in his local church, The Oaks Fellowship in Red Oak, Texas. Justin lives to make strategic connections for greater global impact. He serves in the area of strategic relations for organizations like the Assemblies of God, Leadership Network, and Convoy of Hope.

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Endorsements


“The Likeable Christian makes the compelling observation that Christians can spend more time defending their faith rather than living it out. Justin challenges us to take a hard look at the way we treat people and revisit the way Jesus lived.”

CHRISTINE CAINE
Founder of the A21 campaign and bestselling author of Unstoppable

“I wish The Likeable Christian had been around for me to read when I was young in my faith. Justin’s message is universal and important. It offers guidance and reassurance to those of us who are looking to live out biblical teachings more fully and in a way that won’t ostracize us from others.”

CHRISTINE CAINE
Founder of the A21 campaign and bestselling author of Unstoppable
Dr. Sam Chand
Leadership consultant and author of Leadership Pain

“Anyone who has felt disliked because of his or her faith needs to read this book. In The Likeable Christian, Justin talks about the many reasons a Christian can be hated for his or her beliefs, and offers practical wisdom and insight about how we can win the hearts of many without compromising our convictions.”

Jenni Catron
Church leader and author of Clout and Just Lead!Chayil Advancing Life Ministries, Chicago, Illinois

“I applaud Justin Lathrop for challenging the stance that being Christian automatically makes us unlikeable. His book shows us that we can use our convictions as Christians to fuel our compassion and, ultimately, make us more likeable.”

Jenni Catron
Church leader and author of Clout and Just Lead!
Scott Wilson
Senior pastor of The Oaks Fellowship, Red Oak, Texas, and coauthor of Clear the Stage

“Justin Lathrop is one of the most likeable Christians I know! But more than an accolade, this is a strategic skill that is both needed and necessary for advancing the gospel in an increasingly diverse and cynical society. In The Likeable Christian, Justin enthusiastically explains the concept: what it is, what it isn’t, and why it should matter to you.”

MARK DEYMAZ
Author of Building a Healthy Multi-Ethnic Church and Ethnic Blends

“Justin Lathrop raises a timely question for followers of Jesus everywhere. What does it mean to be likeable in an age of vigorous disagreement? Laced with grace and wisdom, The Likeable Christian challenges people everywhere to reflect the goodness, faithfulness, and love of Jesus. This is a book you can’t afford to miss.”

MARK DEYMAZ
Author of Building a Healthy Multi-Ethnic Church and Ethnic Blends
MARGARET FEINBERG
Author of Fight Back With Joy

“As leaders, we can often feel that our faith is all about being right, and always having the correct answers to everyone’s questions. Justin reminds us that the way of Jesus is far more about empathizing with people than correcting them. I’m excited for this message of likeability to resonate with leaders everywhere!”

BRAD LOMENICK
Former president of Catalyst and organizer of Catalyst Conferences and author of The Catalyst Leader and H3 Leadership

“The Likeable Christian makes the bold, honest observation that, from the world’s perspective, Christians can be kind of, well . . . jerks. I was moved by how Justin challenged me to revise the way I act based on the actions of Jesus. This isn’t your typical Christian book about how to be a better person to impress God. This is a book that challenges us to think about how we treat other people and what that says about our faith.”

BRAD LOMENICK
Former president of Catalyst and organizer of Catalyst Conferences and author of The Catalyst Leader and H3 Leadership
GREG SURRATT
Founding pastor, Seacoast Church, Charleston, South Carolina; president of Association of Related Churches